Lot of people here come saying stuff in some threads that they don't deserve to be tranners because they are gross, fake, that they just have a fetish, that they don't fit a certain narrative, etc.

The truth is that it doesn't really matter, if you don't like living as your natal sex and would really like to become the opposite one, you deserve to transition if that is what you would like.

So I highly advice to stop doing mental self harm to yourself and start to ignore any transphobic party or shallow people that tries to gatekeep everything (specially ignore gender critical feminists)

When you say "you don't deserve to be tranner" as if you were something lesser or not worthy think that cis people don't obsess over this thing, and the early you get treatement for your dysphoria the better it will be.

You may also think it's just a fetish that trans people can't feel horny pre transition while imagining themselves as the opposite sex, but that's not true, it's natural for a gender dysphoric individual to have a mental image of themselves as women if that's what they want to be, so don't think it's just a fetish because of that, imagining yourself that way is just natural.

Now if you think you can't transition because you are "too horny and that means this whole thing is a coomer thing", you have to realize that you're probably with high testosterone levels which will make your sex drive to be high, but sex drive can change dramatically when you take HRT, so don't punch yourself over that, you aren't worse than other people, you also deserve to be respected and loved as a person as long you don't cause harm to others. So if you want to transition but feel you don't deserve it that you are gross, fake, just stop thinking that way. Love yourself more and take care of yourself more, if you really want to transition don't delay your HRT, the earlier you start the better it will be for your mind and body. What you truly deserve to is be happy.