>>12608824Because they know they can't compete. A lot of blacks sincerely believe the muh dick memes, but they know they can't compete in social status. They often also use race as a proxy for wealth and assume that they are outcompeted financially as well.
Of course there are other concerns as well. Her BF is probably worried he can't compete in terms of cultural closeness to his girl, but so it goes. We all will have insecurities.
>>12608826What you said hits on it. When black women marry white men, it's because those women are the Vice President of America or a famous actor (OP's pic) or a famous athlete like Serena Williams. That top tier of black elite woman exists and she usually chooses a white partner.
