I'm not saying its all on us guys, but if you have a shitty girlfriend you either force her hand to change or leave. Men complain an awful lot that their chicks sucks, but are too comfortable to leave. Save your time and money and dump her if it's so bad. In the end you knew how she was but you still dated her. It's like women who get pregnant from some lowlife and complain that he's the baby daddy like they didn't know who he was before opening her legs. It's not all on men, but to not be somewhat accountable is to act like a women.

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