Need advice for what must be very common.

>Be me
>Upper middle class, white family
>Parents are alcoholics
>Raised by daycares and public schools
>Sister is depressed cat mom, but also muh empowered scientist!
>The 3 of them live together, I'm on my own
>I'm the rebel NEET who they won't listen to
>Somehow I'm the only non-miserable one, but they think they're better than me cuz muh shekels and muh status
>Uncle is a tranny
>My sister is going to be a fucking wine aunt thanks to our muh empowered feminist MBA aunt, who lives alone and is a dog mom
>Aunt is discouraging her from starting a family
>Sister only dates feminine BLM faggots, no masculine 'jerks' allowed
>I never see my family because of our differences, and when I do, it's only surface level convos
>Dad has checked out ("I'm not the man of the house, I'm just a man in a house")
>Haven't ever had a 'men-only' conversation with him (vid related ex: "Men and women used to live in separate worlds")
>Fake smiles and pseudo-networking describes every social interaction
>I showed up the other day and my sister put on a mask - LMAO
>I'm assuming this whole familial template is common (vid related)


What have you guys done to correct this degeneration of your family? I wish we could be like those Italian or Indian families that work together and enjoy life. I feel like I would be more motivated in life if my family were at all on my side, since spite doesn't motivate me, and I don't give a fuck about the people around me, who are increasingly Indian, Asian, and black. How to manage?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sigfUu0RS90&ab_channel=Simplyexplained