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Anonymous ID:f4bmGep/ Mon 03 Jul 2017 11:12:27 No.1281417 View View Reply Original Report

Quoted By: >>1281482 >>1281643 >>1282279

>actual actionable advice from /adv/
>use meetup
>meetups of everything in your area
>results: yoga 4 men, gay men gathering, brain injury meetup, carer meetup, yoga for gay men

Wtf man? Now what?

>England
>28yo
>uncool, inept

If you need to know.

/adv/ out of ideas at this point despite having exactly one good idea.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:96Tim2Ps Mon 03 Jul 2017 11:20:05 No.1281445 Report

Quoted By: >>1281468

What the hell are you asking us? Are you just trying to find dudes to fuck? >>>/soc/

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:f4bmGep/ Mon 03 Jul 2017 11:23:59 No.1281468 Report

Quoted By: >>1281471 >>1281627 >>1281824

>>1281445
God no, I'm just looking meet people, you know make some friends that I'm sorely lacking.

Meetups was the only useful piece of advice from /adv/ that I got and all there is in my area is gays and brain damage meetups.

I just need to find some decent people to talk to IRL. I don't think I can't stand this empty existence beyond 30.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:96Tim2Ps Mon 03 Jul 2017 11:24:36 No.1281471 Report

Quoted By: >>1281497

>>1281468
>I'm just looking meet people
>>>/soc/

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:odZrrSXs Mon 03 Jul 2017 11:26:28 No.1281482 Report

Quoted By: >>1281497

>>1281417
martial arts classes are a good place where to find nice and cool people.

Only don't act cocky about anything and act humble or else you'll have a bad time

To work just go to the food business, people love food

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:f4bmGep/ Mon 03 Jul 2017 11:28:20 No.1281497 Report

Quoted By: >>1281499

>>1281471
/soc/ is for latent homosexuals.

Their catalog is almost wall to wall dicks.

>>1281482
>martial arts
Maybe.

>To work just go to the food business, people love food

I work in a supermarket, I don't have the skills to work in the food business.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:96Tim2Ps Mon 03 Jul 2017 11:28:42 No.1281499 Report

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>>1281497
>/soc/ is for latent homosexuals
You're welcome.

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Anonymous ID:f4bmGep/ Mon 03 Jul 2017 11:39:56 No.1281541 Report

Quoted By: >>1281643 >>1282279

I wish there was a government incentive to kill yourself, something like your family gets money for clearing yourself out the gene pool.

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Anonymous ID:f4bmGep/ Mon 03 Jul 2017 11:52:03 No.1281605 Report

Quoted By: >>1281643 >>1281649 >>1282279

Does anyone want the rest of these photos?

It's not like I have anything better to do.

gundog

gundog ID:v6ie9JwJ Mon 03 Jul 2017 11:55:54 No.1281627 Report

Quoted By: >>1281661

>>1281468
If you haven't made friends by now, chances are you've missed the ferry.

Most people draw their social circle around their workplace.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:1aEdwYBN Mon 03 Jul 2017 11:59:45 No.1281643 Report

Quoted By: >>1281670

>>1281541
>>1281605
>>1281417
Sauce?

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:DbNvRwJ/ Mon 03 Jul 2017 12:00:38 No.1281649 Report

Quoted By: >>1281670

>>1281605
sure

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Anonymous ID:f4bmGep/ Mon 03 Jul 2017 12:01:36 No.1281661 Report

Quoted By: >>1281730 >>1282279

>>1281627
>If you haven't made friends by now, chances are you've missed the ferry.

I feared as much.

Maybe I should get diagnosed for depression, I'd probably get some pills.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:f4bmGep/ Mon 03 Jul 2017 12:02:51 No.1281670 Report

Quoted By:

>>1281643
>>1281649
Marshmallow maximus

Maybe I should chemically castrate myself.

gundog

gundog ID:v6ie9JwJ Mon 03 Jul 2017 12:07:20 No.1281730 Report

Quoted By: >>1281793

>>1281661
Don't worry. 24 and friendless by my own volition; you aren't missing much.

SSRIs didn't help me desu

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Anonymous ID:f4bmGep/ Mon 03 Jul 2017 12:16:52 No.1281793 Report

Quoted By: >>1281851 >>1282279

>>1281730
>Don't worry. 24 and friendless by my own volition; you aren't missing much.

I don't know, I remember once taking the bus to workslavery and not getting off cos I was watching other groups of people just living life. Can't remember what bus it was but it went through central London far away from work. Didn't go to work that day.

(Also I'm 28 and the last 5 years have incredibly depressing.)

>SSRIs didn't help me desu

What did they do then?

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:GGmc0tCN Mon 03 Jul 2017 12:22:06 No.1281824 Report

Quoted By: >>1281827 >>1281846

>>1281468

where abouts are you located man? Anywhere near romford? You know how to play an instrument or anything, maybe we could meet up and jam or somethin.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:GGmc0tCN Mon 03 Jul 2017 12:23:02 No.1281827 Report

Quoted By: >>1281858

>>1281824
fellow friendless 30 somethjing btw

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:f4bmGep/ Mon 03 Jul 2017 12:27:48 No.1281846 Report

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>>1281824
Somewhere around East London. I don't play any instruments.

gundog

gundog ID:v6ie9JwJ Mon 03 Jul 2017 12:29:06 No.1281851 Report

Quoted By: >>1281890

>>1281793
Turn me into a numb robot.

I just felt off. I find it better to battle it within myself naturally, I guess.

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Anonymous ID:f4bmGep/ Mon 03 Jul 2017 12:30:26 No.1281858 Report

Quoted By: >>1281889 >>1282279

>>1281827
Why are you friendless?

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:GGmc0tCN Mon 03 Jul 2017 12:39:21 No.1281889 Report

Quoted By: >>1281916 >>1281938 >>1281961

>>1281858
Long story. Short version would be I had a breakdown in my late 20s and the few acquaintances i had fucked off, along with my girlfriend a little while later.

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Anonymous ID:f4bmGep/ Mon 03 Jul 2017 12:39:30 No.1281890 Report

Quoted By: >>1282279

>>1281851
Doesn't sound great, but I've feeling like shit for years now. If something can take the edge off it, then maybe I should try it.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:9j7j65v2 Mon 03 Jul 2017 12:48:30 No.1281916 Report

Quoted By: >>1282066

>>1281889
Long story, I haven't got work till 4.

Also I can't upload any more pics of maximillius since they're copyrighted. Huh.

gundog

gundog ID:v6ie9JwJ Mon 03 Jul 2017 12:54:48 No.1281938 Report

Quoted By: >>1281961

>>1281889
Sounds pretty based. I did something similar.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:9j7j65v2 Mon 03 Jul 2017 12:59:23 No.1281961 Report

Quoted By: >>1282100

>>1281889
>>1281938
>breakdown

Maybe I should try that.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:GGmc0tCN Mon 03 Jul 2017 13:01:46 No.1282066 Report

Quoted By: >>1282101

>>1281916

>be me
>painfully shy since early childhood
>bullied whole life by school mates/psycho father/bosses/work mates
>cant roll with the banter like most guys, apart from with 1 or 2 close friends
>have trouble standing up for myself and get taken advantage of
>get diagnosed with aspergers at 25
>"oh so it really was all my fault"
>Try and change myself to become whjat people expect of me
>second guessing every action I take asking myself if its what a normal person would do
>depression and anxiety set in
>drink more to compensate
>make fool of myself at party i wasnt even officially invited to held by best mates gfs friend
>best mate cuts ties
>other mates follow suit pretty soon after
>start doing drugs
>paranoia now joins depression and anxiety
>cant look anyone in the face for more than like 2 seconds now as im sure everyone just thinks im weird as soon as they lay eyes on me
>girlfriend leaves
>move back to parents
>become agoraphobic
>give up drugs
>slow progress up till today, getting better though.

thats pretty much it. Would be nice to have some people to go for a drink with again.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:GGmc0tCN Mon 03 Jul 2017 13:07:03 No.1282100 Report

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>>1281961

I wouldnt reccomend it really. It does make you creative though.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:9j7j65v2 Mon 03 Jul 2017 13:07:21 No.1282101 Report

Quoted By: >>1282124 >>1282126

>>1282066
>>make fool of myself at party i wasnt even officially invited to held by best mates gfs friend
>>best mate cuts ties
Expand.

>cant roll with the banter like most guys, apart from with 1 or 2 close friends
>have trouble standing up for myself and get taken advantage of

I don't what it is that almost dude (well the type of people you meet where I am at life right now, which aren't a great bunch to begin with), that they have to assert everything through dominance.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:9j7j65v2 Mon 03 Jul 2017 13:10:51 No.1282124 Report

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>>1282101
*almost all dudes

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:GGmc0tCN Mon 03 Jul 2017 13:11:17 No.1282126 Report

Quoted By: >>1282165 >>1282301

>>1282101

I just got blackout drunk, aparently i got angrty when a girl i liked went off with someone else, then started shouting that everyone there was scum, got a kicking then left. texted friend on way home and laid into his girlfriend.

I dont remember any of it tho. I was just messed up.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:9j7j65v2 Mon 03 Jul 2017 13:17:36 No.1282165 Report

Quoted By: >>1282175 >>1282190

>>1282126
>got a kicking then left

Christ. Did you leave the area? Cos that seems like something people won't forget in a hurry.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:GGmc0tCN Mon 03 Jul 2017 13:20:06 No.1282175 Report

Quoted By: >>1282190 >>1282212

>>1282165
It wasnt like a serious beating. I think they knew I was just wasted anyway. I got home eventually anyway.

People probably do remember it, I dont live round there anymore anyway tho so.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:GGmc0tCN Mon 03 Jul 2017 13:22:28 No.1282190 Report

Quoted By: >>1282212

>>1282165
>>1282175

The worst thing is some people might think im actually like that every day. I literally wouldnt say boo to a goose usuallky tho.

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Anonymous ID:9j7j65v2 Mon 03 Jul 2017 13:29:41 No.1282212 Report

Quoted By: >>1282379

>>1282175
>>1282190

People have me pegged as a sort of non-entity, so no one really bothers like they did at school (as much).

But it's slowly driven me crazy at the aspect of zero pussy and lack of female interaction in general as well as interaction from people who aren't cunts as a whole.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:gFGFhFKi Mon 03 Jul 2017 13:43:06 No.1282279 Report

Quoted By: >>1282283 >>1282600,1

>>1281890
>>1281858
>>1281793
>>1281661
>>1281605
>>1281541
>>1281417
Does she have noods?
I've been looking, but only found a nipslip

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:9j7j65v2 Mon 03 Jul 2017 13:43:30 No.1282283 Report

Quoted By:

>>1282279
>Does she have noods?
No.

gundog

gundog ID:oPanb/V7 Mon 03 Jul 2017 13:45:19 No.1282301 Report

Quoted By: >>1282355

>>1282126
I did this exact thing except the girl I laid into was my cheating ex I never expected to see, plus nobody had the balls to stand up to me as I'm short tempered.

Woke up with a hole in my temple and scratches everywhere else. Don't remember a thing.

To elaborate further, she started talking shit and I kept quiet until I just couldn't anymore. I'm not salty about it anymore, but there are just people I can't stand. Apparently the last lucid thing I did there was say
>I hope you give birth to beautiful children only to bury them from bone cancer months later

I know I'm fucking retarded; that's why I am in a friendless thread.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:9j7j65v2 Mon 03 Jul 2017 13:52:33 No.1282355 Report

Quoted By: >>1282383 >>1282422

>>1282301
>I hope you give birth to beautiful children only to bury them from bone cancer months later

Christ, that's real harsh.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:GGmc0tCN Mon 03 Jul 2017 13:54:13 No.1282379 Report

Quoted By: >>1282468

>>1282212

its always been a cunts world unfortunately, thats why most CEOs in big companies are psychopaths. You live near london? thats where most of them flock to.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:GGmc0tCN Mon 03 Jul 2017 13:54:38 No.1282383 Report

Quoted By: >>1282468

>>1282355
funny tho

gundog

gundog ID:oPanb/V7 Mon 03 Jul 2017 13:59:32 No.1282422 Report

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>>1282355
>t.drug fueled manlet with anger issues

Ironically enough used to be popular and chadlike, but realized that it's just a meme; besides I never liked the people surrounding me during thse times.

It does hurt seeing normal people flock with smiles on their faces.
I envy yet detest them.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:9j7j65v2 Mon 03 Jul 2017 14:04:41 No.1282468 Report

Quoted By:

>>1282383
Not really, I'm not as desensitised IRL than when I'm behind a screen.

Even watching people punched in the head is a lot more visceral in reality.

>>1282379
>cunts world

Hipsters seem to happy enough and don't come into conflict with each other but I guess when you're middle class, you don't have the same worries as a working class person. I swear occasionally see hipsters just saunter through un-gentrified parts of London without a fucking care in the world. Like their headspace completely different.

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Anonymous ID:9j7j65v2 Mon 03 Jul 2017 14:16:39 No.1282554 Report

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Anonymous ID:9j7j65v2 Mon 03 Jul 2017 14:21:48 No.1282594 Report

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Well, it's been interesting to talk to you, if not fruitful. Got to go to my wageslave job.

gundog

gundog ID:oPanb/V7 Mon 03 Jul 2017 14:22:13 No.1282600 Report

Quoted By:

>>1282554
Who the fuck wears latex in an open space?

Anonymous

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>>1282279
Where did you find the nipslip?

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