Help.

I was talking to my dad about how he doesn't know everything about me and he brought up "I know about your bisexual Twink lifestyle, and all the lube you buy" and I don't know what to do. He thinks I'm a bottom. I'm not, I'm a top I'm a cool strong man I don't want him to think I'm a weak sissy but idk how to tell him now without it being akward.