>>12875435>How do I make my husbands life not a living hell despite?Reject everything your female dog brain tells you.
Which begins by, first of all, you must select a husband that goes against your female nature. Your female nature is Icarus. It is entropy. You will select a child abuser. You will select a felon. You will select an adulterous whoremonger. You will select an alcoholic. By default. This is how women are. You must overcome your female nature to see chaos and destruction (entropy). You must find the man who is orderly. Who builds. Physically and metaphyisically. The man who is principled. The man who makes your vagina produce zero tingly feelings.
Then you give that man lots of sons and daughters that you two lovingly raise and the entire time you trust his judgement and don't act like an uppity shrew. You must constantly keep your female dog brain in check. Because you are basically possessed by a demon. Not literally but you are the descendant of Eve, who took the fruit. Of Pandora, who opened the box. You are fallen and corrupt and you produce children.
Which is magical. But the cost of that is, essentially, madness. So if you start from the assumption you are mad, you find the husband who isn't mad and who can see, and you rely on him like a blind person would rely on a seeing eye dog. Your speciality is raising small children. Listen to your instincts when it comes to taking care of children.
But for everything else, you must eschew and reject your female impulses because they are completely antithetical to order, happiness, and long term stability. Your inner roastie dog brain hates these things. And you must learn to overcome that.
