1.) I don't want a "tradwife", cuz a.) they're hard to find and b.) meh, just don't want

2.) I don't wanna be a deadbeat

I don't wanna settle for 3 or 4 kids, but "because women", even that would seem like a chore to talk people into. What do I do, exactly? Polygamy? Lots of hookups but still see my kids?

I know most modern women aren't marriageable, so would I just have like 5 girlfriends and get them into some breeding fetish thing? I need answers