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Anonymous Wed 23 Jun 2021 09:59:00 No.13007269 View View Reply Original Report

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I'm 19
> haven't got a permit
>lives with my mom [overbearing btw]
> failed community college
> doesn't have a job [NEET]
> also autistic [or at least on the spectrum]
> no muscles [overweight]
give me motivation /pol/

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 23 Jun 2021 10:00:34 No.13007270 Report

Quoted By: >>13007274 >>13007275

>>13007269
you are only 19. im 25 and still a neet.
start with your diet, and get exercise in. fix your body before you start thinking about serious decisions. your ill health will hinder you at accomplishing anything.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 23 Jun 2021 10:00:55 No.13007271 Report

Quoted By: >>13007274

Lift, get loicense, get minimum wage shit job, find cheap room to rent, ghost mother for a couple years. Ought to chill her right the fuck out. If not, ghost again. Who cares?

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 23 Jun 2021 10:05:51 No.13007272 Report

Quoted By: >>13007274

>>13007269
I’m 28. Dropped out of high school because of heroin. I’m chad in the looks department now and get laid often but my life is unfulfilling and I’m unemployed.
If you don’t do “the right thing”, you are going to develop depression like you can not possibly conceive.
You think your depressed now? Hoooo boy just wait a decade.

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E Wed 23 Jun 2021 10:11:55 No.13007273 Report

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You have to seek motivation from with in anon. A time will come where you may be needed by people who care about you. You have to care for yourself first in order to accomplish anything.

YOU HAVE ALL THE KNOWLEDGE OF THE WORLD AT YOUR FINGERTIPS ANON! It is up to what you do with that knowledge. Learn a trade, get active in your community. Form contacts regardless of how antisocial you are. Im 24 and only now realizing my potential. I may be waging away but for every shitty person I deal with I am able to bring light into more. Become recognizable by people for the good deeds you do and NOT with what you say. That only comes after you built a foundation to stand on. Youre still young too but dont give up on yourself yet. Form better habits.

There WILL be no place for ANYONE who chooses to remain weak and not endure their life as we ALL must. Good luck anon, if we ever meet, id hope to see you among the ranks of so many others who will fight for our better future.

Now get the fuck off my damn board and fix yourself!

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E Wed 23 Jun 2021 10:20:48 No.13007274 Report

Quoted By: >>13007278

>>13007270
This and checked.
>>13007271
Depending on the relationship id stay. Avoid paying rent for as long as possible amd save up as much as you can because you will probably get kicked out. If she asks for rent then you put your foot down and tell her she is no longer allowed to be overbearing. Tell her she will get paid ever month starting the next month. If she hasnt changed than instead of paying her you move out without a single fucking word.
>>13007272
I often have people tell me how different they would run their life in my shoes. I can say for certain if I was a neet with money id have already started making plans to bring people together under a banner. If course I dont know your life and I will work with what I have to achieve my own dreams and ambitious regardless of how grandiose they are.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 23 Jun 2021 10:22:04 No.13007275 Report

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>>13007270
true magyar fren, a clear mind rests within a healthy body

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 23 Jun 2021 10:22:14 No.13007276 Report

Quoted By: >>13007279

just do like 10 pushups a day and you'll have a little bit of muscle to do 20 pretty soon

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 23 Jun 2021 10:23:42 No.13007277 Report

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>>13007269
Learn to write and make music

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 23 Jun 2021 10:24:52 No.13007278 Report

Quoted By: >>13007280

>>13007274
>expecting overbearing women to keep their word
ngmi. Just gtfo as soon as possible. Inflation will render your savings worthless anyway. The system is designed to make you spend more and save less because it boosts (((gdp))). If you want a store of wealth, try boomer metals like silver and gold. Maybe an (((rrsp))) or some shit if you want mr shekelburg to play with your money in exchange for a pitifully low interest rate. Failing that, just build a stock of canned goods and bugout bags.

Anonymous

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Anonymous Wed 23 Jun 2021 10:27:05 No.13007279 Report

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>>13007276
This. Frequency is more important than duration. Start small, but keep at it. I lift a 20lbs dumbell every day and I almost graduated from Xbox body to dad bod.

E Wed 23 Jun 2021 10:29:31 No.13007280 Report

Quoted By: >>13007282

>>13007278
Im mot saying youre wrong but thats where saving money comes in. Stay as long as you can bare the situation but keep enough in savings to where you can leave at a moments notice. Last thing you want is to go crawling back because you didnt plan far enough ahead.
Fully support putting money into gold and silver. Maybe throw some at bitcoin here and there.

Anonymous

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Anonymous Wed 23 Jun 2021 10:35:03 No.13007281 Report

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>>13007269

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 23 Jun 2021 10:36:22 No.13007282 Report

Quoted By: >>13007284

>>13007280
Whamen like to go out of their way to screw you over if they feel slighted. Overbearing mothers usually enjoy feeling needed because it makes them feel powerful, so it will be in her interest to keep you dependant. Do not make your plans known under any circumstances. Just gtfo asap. That's why getting a job is step 1.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 23 Jun 2021 10:42:45 No.13007283 Report

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You're not autistic, you're just a loser.
You don't need motivation, you need discipline.
Actually fucking do something to fix your situation or keep whining about it on the internet until you're in your late 20s and in the same situation.
Faggot

E Wed 23 Jun 2021 10:44:08 No.13007284 Report

Quoted By: >>13007286

>>13007282
Agreed. Thats why if she asks for rent you take that as the hint to find a new place. Never let her see your bank statements and when shes expecting rent she sees an empty bedroom instead.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 23 Jun 2021 10:50:20 No.13007285 Report

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>>13007269
Stop fapping. This will instill in you a sense of discipline. Get a job. This will do the same.
Move out. Your mother is damaging you psychologically to keep you dependent.
Start lifting. This will also improve your mindset.
Then address yourself to improving yourself economically.
One step at a time continual improvement

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 23 Jun 2021 10:51:43 No.13007286 Report

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>>13007284
100% This. Don't even tell her you're moving out. Just up and go in the middle of the night as soon as you're ready. She should wake up one day expecting to twist your arm for something on threat of eviction only to instead find you and your things have vanished. Obviously leave your phone if she's paying for it. Delete everything on it first of course.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 23 Jun 2021 10:57:31 No.13007287 Report

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>>13007269
Imagine you're 39 and still living with your mom.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 23 Jun 2021 11:01:24 No.13007288 Report

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>>13007269
What do you meand "permit". Driver license?

I'm like you, but I'm healthy without autistic and other shit.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 23 Jun 2021 11:04:36 No.13007289 Report

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>>13007269
just go play WoW until the end times happen

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 23 Jun 2021 11:19:42 No.13007290 Report

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>>13007269
Buy a vehicle and travel. Even if it's around your town. You'll "wake up" doing this. You'll realize the time your wasting, your capability as a human to achieve things, all because you started driving. I guarantee right now you are the way you are because your sedentary in a visual sense. You need to visualize this potential movement by moving. I bet you groan at the thought of checking the mail, of taking the trash out. Cull that, go outside, go for a drive. It's what you need.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 23 Jun 2021 11:20:43 No.13007291 Report

Quoted By: >>13007293

PLAN FOR OP:
Step 1: Get a job. Any job. McDonald's, Taco bell, janitor somewhere, etc. Who cares? As long as you can get full time hours, go for it. You can worry about getting an education or bettering yourself later. For now, you must be able to survive. Begin putting money away immediately. Get bank account if you don't already have one of your own. (Mother must not have access to it in any way)
Step 2: Get your own phone. Your mother can access all of your text messages. You should be using a more secure platform like telegram for most of your communication anyway, but get your own phone plan.
Step 3: Get transportation. License, friend with car, bicycle, public transit pass, electric scooter, whatever. You absolutely must have mobility.
Step 4: Find a cheap room for rent somewhere. It must cost no more than 50% of your monthly income from previously mentioned job. The closer to your place of employment, the better.
Step 5: Ditch your whore mother and never speak to her again.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 23 Jun 2021 11:22:01 No.13007292 Report

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>>13007269
I'll send you a "get better" card. Not because you're sick. You just need to get better.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 23 Jun 2021 11:24:27 No.13007293 Report

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>>13007291
Addendum: Social media is liability. You will be stalked. You will be harassed. You will be manipulated. Get rid of it.

Arutafu

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Arutafu ID:KZHgqBS5 Wed 23 Jun 2021 11:46:37 No.13007352 Report

Quoted By: >>13007382

>>13007269
>/pol/
This aint /pol/ Nigger, gtfo and die

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:3OKTQ553 Wed 23 Jun 2021 12:05:35 No.13007382 Report

Quoted By: >>13007398

>>13007352
Thread was moved from /pol/

Arutafu

Arutafu ID:JLr0y+4y Wed 23 Jun 2021 12:11:43 No.13007398 Report

Quoted By: >>13007403 >>13007415

>>13007382
How frequent does this happen?

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:MBCMn8Ry Wed 23 Jun 2021 12:14:07 No.13007403 Report

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>>13007398
Every single fucking day. Fuck mods

Anonymous

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Anonymous ID:r+yuZ/7x Wed 23 Jun 2021 12:20:52 No.13007415 Report

Quoted By: >>13007432 >>13008804

>>13007398

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:KZHgqBS5 Wed 23 Jun 2021 12:28:41 No.13007432 Report

Quoted By: >>13008804

>>13007415
Yum yum
*Slurps and vomits the contents in your mouth*
You like that?

Anonymous

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Anonymous ID:V1Znr4Tu Wed 23 Jun 2021 15:42:56 No.13008804 Report

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>>13007415
>>13007432

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:kvGnn4iQ Wed 23 Jun 2021 15:52:52 No.13008833 Report

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I highly recommend getting a job something easy like weekend work or taking up a hobby that can potentially lead to some income. Also slowly try to be more independent from your mother.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:7Ok2gdPO Wed 23 Jun 2021 16:32:40 No.13008980 Report

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>>13007269
if you dont do shit with your life youll become a fucking loser and at one point you wont have a chance to turn it around. you have to start now because your early year decisions are the ones that matter the most. if you work out and stop being a fat ass and have full control of your body which feels great. if your mom is a stupid overbearing bitch then you gotta rely on yourself yo beat your self up. good motivation is looking at other disgusting losers and remembering you dont wanna be them

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:ZVtEsHJ0 Wed 23 Jun 2021 19:37:22 No.13010040 Report

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>>13007269
have sex

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:30M8GK4o Thu 24 Jun 2021 00:24:14 No.13011627 Report

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>>13007269
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