>>13010884If you spin plates, and they know it, they behave like subservient, submissive, eager fuckholes.
They always try to one-up each other, even when they don't know who that other is.
Arranging dates, cooking dinner, always putting out, eager to please.
Now contrast that to a committed monogamous relationship. Once the chick realizes she has you on lockdown, she will stop putting on makeup, showering daily, putting on sexy lingerie. She will stop surprising you with sex, she will regularly provide excuses as to why she can't have sex. She will become passive-aggressive and possessive. Forget about home-cooked meals, some pasta and salad is the best you're going to get, no more 2hour-to-prepare feasts.
I am a boomer, I've had several monogamous relationships. With virgin women that didn't even know how to masturbate. With my highschool sweetheart. With accomplished career women. It happens to every one of them. You go from fucking 6 times a day and getting surprised with blowjobs, coffee, and home baked cookies in the morning, to having sex twice a week, citing headaches and cramps. After years of home cooked meals you start to realize you've been eating takeout, PBJ toast, and pasta for the last 6 months. But interestingly enough, their needs keep expanding, it's like an inverse relationship. They feel stifled in an apartment and want a two-story house. The S2000 is lame, they are going to need an SUV. Their complaints about presents go from flowers to expensive accessories, clothes, and jewelry.
Don't get married, especially if you are affluent. You can spin plates well into your 50s.
