How do you discipline your wives /pol/?

I am happily married, 35 yo (started a little on the laste side, been redpilled by my dad since I was little - he was all into what /pol/ is, but had his own demons and succumbed into living 2fast2furious and unfortunately died 2 years ago).

I have a wife and a cute 2 yo boy, just got my wife pregnant again and can't wait to become a father of two.

However, my wife - even tho she was brought up traditionally - has been a spoiled single kid.
She's far from what I see here on /pol/ and by no means a leftist, however she's got these annoying fucking moods (she's depressed to be forced to stay at home again with the second kid, even tho I secured a shitload of money so she doesn't have to work).
She's loyal and all, but I sometimes feel she lacks the proper hierarchy.
I scolded her hard yesterday when she felt bad about having to stay at home and thinking that working for some schmuck is a LIFE GOAL in itself instead of raising her progeny.
She is definately infected with the entry level AM I TO BE A PREGNANT COW NOW INSTEAD OF MAKING A CAREER.

I am trying to help her out by pushing her into hobbies, or taking care of the kid so she can have an evening out with her friends (she lacks any and I had to call her old girlfriends to make an appointment with her).

She misses her only hobby she's ever had because of the kid and pregnancy now, and I can feel for her in this regard, but I have no idea what to push her into, since all women are fucking philistines without any real passions nor interests.
She also screams at me trying to boss me around for which I am treating her like a spoiled brat which works in the short run, but it begins a new each and every week.

How do you deal with your wive's bullshit /pol/? How do I mold her into the perfect 50's housewife?