>>13059009It’s the only way they learn.
I met my wife when we were 13, started dating at 14 and 15 we started fooling around occasionally with her and my dads beers. This was when her dad started to come out in her. She was 100% a daddy’s little girl. Her mum was lovely, wouldn’t hurt a fly, always loved me and took me in.
Her dad on the other hand was a piece of shit when he was drunk (every night). He wouldn’t hit the kids but he’d always bash his wife.
I told my girlfriend that I thought her dad was a scumbag. She told me he likes me more than his only son and his other daughters boyfriends and I said I don’t give a fuck, the mans a total cunt and I only tolerate him because of you.
But when she started drinking, her tone of voice changed, it was direct, confronting and rough. She thought everyone had it out for her. The night would always end up with us having a shouting match. Eventually I just cut off the sex when drinking was involved.
Naturally she’d forget she acted like a total cunt the night before and whenever I talked to her about it she’d always say “I haven’t done anything wrong” and “I don’t change when I drink”
I told her one night she was her dad through and through and she absolutely HATED that and started throwing fisty cuffs at me in bed.
The next morning I confronted her again and she still carried on like a cunt I couldn’t hold back any longer and gave her a backhand across the face. She was on the floor and looked up at me, clutching her face, angry, then she got up to walk out until I stopped and coddled her, looked at her again and punched her this time in the same place. I shouted “if you ever carry on like your dad again you can go back and live with the cunt” (we were 17, just moved into a townhouse, she was desperate to get away from her parents house and had been nagging me for years to move out).
That was 40 years ago, and she falls in line everytime I give her “the look”
