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Wizard, and never going to have a gf
I was only ever attracted to one woman in my life. I despise sluts. I can't get attracted to any woman if I suspect that she's a slut. The problem is that to my brain, all women who want sex are sluts - including sex with me. As I understand, the very first step towards a relationship is that both you and her want it; well, I can't get interested in her if she wants it. As soon as she gives any sort of sign that she has a sexuality (like, she mentions what she likes in men, or she's had a boyfriend before, or she makes a sex joke, or anything that could advance seduction) my mind goes automatically do-not-want mode, she's just like the others, she's a worthless slut and she'll do to me what sluts do to men, cheat on me, humiliate me, whatever. So instead of welcoming women that like me, I get hostile.
It's even worse if she's had any boyfriends before, which is 100% of all women I've met in my adult life. Because a woman who has had sex, isn't afraid of sex - much less if she's had sex multiple times with different people. She probably cherishes her own sexuality as part of her personality. I don't want that. I want a woman who believes that sex is a sacrifice she makes for me, not someone who feels that it's a fun activity between two people like playing tennis or playing music together. Which, again, is 100% of modern women IRL.
2D women were always superior anyway.
