>>1309929If it weren't a problem then it wouldn't be bothering you, right? All I was suggesting was that you putting pressure on yourself in regards to these standards are being done so to make up for some other aspect of your life that you're falling short of, even if you aren't aware of it. Everyone does this in one form or another. Where they fall short in one way, and make up for it another. For the most part it's normal. It only becomes a problem when it interferes with your daily routine consistently.
Does that happen to you? If not then you'd be right that it's not a problem. If it does well... Unfortunately I don't know what to suggest to truly help. Which is why I said for you to take it easy and grab yourself a cookie. Whatever it is, it's not the end of the world.
