>>13268319I was indeed implying. The mental health system is broken, and there are too many incompetent therapists. Currently it's likely that insurance will hook you up with a counselor who isn't even a psychologist.
I had similar problems to him at his age but they went away when I stopped taking Lexapro/strattera/effexor/welbutrin for adhd. Those drugs made me crazy.
They probably fuck up testosterone as other anon mentioned above that his thought patterns are feminine.
He obviously had some trauma that kept him from developing or was a late bloomer, got kicked in the balls. I didn't age into my own sense of masculinity until maybe age 24 or so. Some people just take longer. One of the shitty things about hormone treatments for kids is that nb shit is a common phase for a few people, with or without trauma.
Sometimes you just get stuck in a negative feedback loop where you're not good at sports so you don't get to practice with friends so you never develop physically. Incelibacy is a similar negative feedback loop.
He also suffered from narcissistic delusions of grandeur which also come from avoiding traumatic flashbacks. You end up developing that to avoid crushing feelings of inferiority and to cope with physically painful memories.
That's why I would have suggested dialectical behavioral therapy. Something where you can remove yourself from overwhelming flashbacks and sort out all the painful feelings safely when you're feeling better. It involves meditation and picking more fun activities than sitting around seething. Developing distress tolerance, etc. It could have saved him.
Shit why am I posting this at 2a on 4chan should I just get my masters degree and become a counselor instead of neeting? Idk. Seems like a shit job. I studied psychology to fix myself so I could live my life and play music. Night everyone.
