>>13395488Here's a real answer, go outside, get obsessed with something a game or hobby or sport. Something others get obsessed with too, allow yourself to burn out on it, learn your limits and then move forward. Have good times with others and be funny and relaxed confidence comes later. Stay humble and if you arent humble become humble, realize everything sucks in some way and that means there's always room for growth. Everything sucks sometimes and thats okay. Just don't think about them and if you cant stop yourself pre occupy yourself