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Anonymous ID:a1eWdAFE Sat 08 Jul 2017 00:23:22 No.1340652 View View Reply Original Report

Quoted By: >>1340661 >>1340662 >>1340664 >>1340672 >>1340756 >>1341392 >>1344031 >>1345440

Does anyone else ever feel bad about wasting the best years of their life on 4chan?

Im starting to feel as though spending time here will never make me feel happy or accomplished. I'm starting to wonder whether there might be more to life than sitting in front of a computer.

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Anonymous ID:J8w/MER1 Sat 08 Jul 2017 00:24:24 No.1340661 Report

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>>1340652
No

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Anonymous ID:qVE8745j Sat 08 Jul 2017 00:24:30 No.1340662 Report

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>>1340652
LOL

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:p065/y6b Sat 08 Jul 2017 00:24:38 No.1340664 Report

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>>1340652
There might be, idk

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:37rDDw5l Sat 08 Jul 2017 00:25:34 No.1340672 Report

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>>1340652
How old are you?

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:a1eWdAFE Sat 08 Jul 2017 00:26:01 No.1340679 Report

Quoted By: >>1340716 >>1340850

>>1340672
I am 21

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:J8w/MER1 Sat 08 Jul 2017 00:30:08 No.1340716 Report

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>>1340679
You only wasted your youth here, not your life.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:a1eWdAFE Sat 08 Jul 2017 00:33:01 No.1340730 Report

Quoted By: >>1340750

>>1340716
The youth is the foundation of a person's life though. That is when you form healthy habits and build the framework from then on. I know that you shouldn't "cry over spilled milk" or whatever normies say about looking forward as opposed to worrying about the past but I still cant help but feel guilty about it all.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:yeu29DhH Sat 08 Jul 2017 00:35:31 No.1340750 Report

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>>1340730
Feelings felt. I've found myself crippled with depression for excluding myself from family to play video games and hang out with frens

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:7+LoEhFb Sat 08 Jul 2017 00:36:43 No.1340756 Report

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>>1340652
Presuming you started in your teens, I'd surmise you've spent max 6-7 years here. Assuming you'll lead a full life, that's peanuts in comparison.

Anyway, you're still young, early 20s - you still have time to improve anything about yourself you want. Just do it now instead of later, because you'll regret it.

Don't fuck around. Don't put it off for tomorrow. It is not too late. Hit the gym, start drawing, become a trap faggot - whatever you choose.
Just don't fuck around waiting for the change. Go fucking get it.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:a1eWdAFE Sat 08 Jul 2017 00:40:39 No.1340799 Report

Quoted By: >>1340866

>>1340750
Personally I don't feel depression at all. Mostly just regret, anxiety and a feeling of urgency to catch up on things ive missed out on.

I desperately try to create overly specific schedules to optimize my time and then when something interrupts I get very angry. A while ago I had to wait an hour for a medical appointment past when it was scheduled for and I yelled at the secretary for wasting my time. Another time the gym closed earlier than written so I didn't get to finish my workout so I broke a mirror in the changeroom.

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Anonymous ID:a1eWdAFE Sat 08 Jul 2017 00:44:26 No.1340837 Report

Quoted By: >>1340997

>>1340756
Hardly peanuts.

5 years for example of 20-25 is easily worth 15 years 50-65.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:37rDDw5l Sat 08 Jul 2017 00:45:19 No.1340850 Report

Quoted By: >>1340946

>>1340679
You are still babby.
Only rich people can afford to spend their youth having fun. Most people spend theirs studying for tests or working horrible minimum wage jobs.

Sometimes when I feel nostalgic and depressed, I remember that youth is about 80% suffering and that all my psychological issues stem from that period, and I feel glad it's all over.

Normie life is just another form of suffering.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:yeu29DhH Sat 08 Jul 2017 00:47:18 No.1340866 Report

Quoted By: >>1340946

>>1340799
Making a schedule and expecting it to pan out everyday will only make your anxiety worse, too many variable, mostly in other people. I personally hate time restraints and they stress me to the fucking max.

A lot of my regret/depression comes from not being as close to one parent or the other, from spending too much time doing my own thing that felt fun at the time, but now I find myself wishing I'd have just went to the grocery store with my dad when he went instead of being neet.

I'm at work and I have to stop :(

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:a1eWdAFE Sat 08 Jul 2017 00:58:05 No.1340946 Report

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>>1340850
Most people are plebs what else is new. If you start comparing yourself to them then just about any sort of weakness becomes justified.

>>1340866
My parents have always only held me back, given me horrendous advice or attempted to stifle my interests. I do not share your feel.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:7+LoEhFb Sat 08 Jul 2017 01:03:09 No.1340997 Report

Quoted By: >>1341236

>>1340837
Average lifespan for a Canadian male is 81.96. Sure, I might have been exaggerating, but it's 5/82 - 6.1 percent.

Regardless, there's still plenty of time.

as for scheduling, I had the same problem a few months ago - don't be too tight. instead of setting a strict schedule, just say "I will do an hour of X a day" and try and do that. Take it slow and allow yourself to ease into a routine instead of going dick first into the void of strict scheduling. Change takes time and change is slow. Pace yourself correctly, and celebrate even the small victories.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:i3hG8W97 Sat 08 Jul 2017 01:26:33 No.1341236 Report

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>>1340997
All successful people have meticulous and pragmatic schedules though. If you don't have a pragmatic method to a situation I truly don't see how you can have anywhere near an optimally efficient path to accomplishing it.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:7+LoEhFb Sat 08 Jul 2017 01:35:34 No.1341352 Report

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>>1341236
Maybe so, but as I said, you can't just run head first into that sort of scheduling. You need to ease yourself into it, and even then you need some leniency. There's always tomorrow for the stuff you didn't manage today.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:36HUfF4e Sat 08 Jul 2017 01:38:31 No.1341392 Report

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>>1340652
Then stop going on here. It's that simple

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Anonymous ID:gO+fdmFE Sat 08 Jul 2017 01:40:27 No.1341421 Report

Quoted By: >>1343916

It's not time wasted if you enjoyed it.

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Anonymous ID:EaLuoqdM Sat 08 Jul 2017 05:11:51 No.1343916 Report

Quoted By: >>1343961 >>1343991

>>1341421
Does anyone actually enjoy spending time on 4chan?

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:W1NOQXyR Sat 08 Jul 2017 05:15:10 No.1343961 Report

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>>1343916
hi

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Anonymous ID:ms+Tqic+ Sat 08 Jul 2017 05:17:19 No.1343991 Report

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>>1343916
Does someone who's been a heavy smoker all their life enjoy smoking cigarettes?

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Anonymous ID:4PHMiuM2 Sat 08 Jul 2017 05:20:02 No.1344027 Report

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Nope. Been here all day erry day since 2010 an not a single fuck given.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:/LXe41yZ Sat 08 Jul 2017 05:20:08 No.1344031 Report

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>>1340652

SHUT UP FAGGOT
THERE IS NOTHING ELSE

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Anonymous ID:4PHMiuM2 Sat 08 Jul 2017 05:23:39 No.1344085 Report

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Note: You can self study for an hour a day and still shitpost here, faggot. Learn spanish or something.

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Anonymous ID:FrZHKYUX Sat 08 Jul 2017 08:22:48 No.1345440 Report

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