>>13706482Same. I've never had a lack of ladies willing to date me but it always ended in failure.
I was respectful and kind, never pressuring my gf's, making sure she was the one that initiated that next step in the relationship. All of them, save one, eventually did and most of them made a big show of it lol but after sex became part of the relationship I stayed respectful and again zero pressure for intimacy.
They all left me, always for an absolute asshole, not your average asshole, a mega-asshole. I think they were desperately trying to get dominated. And boy - did they overcompensate. Almost always I hear through the grapevine that they new guy gets booted to the curb in under a month and she always regrets dating them and half the time she regrets leaving me.
I've had three tell me outright they made mistake and feel foolish (rapey vibes, like they bit off more than they can chew with the new guy). Two criers wanted to try again. One literally bawling her eyes out begging for a relationship made some pretty interesting offers, the only one I would have taken back - too bad the other guy got her pregnant.
My last gf got so frustrated at my zero pressure that she flipped out and outright told me what she wanted. "I want you to make me second guess myself if I leave the house looking only half decent! That shirt? Tell me to brush may hair even if it's perfect" "Just catch my wrist and fucking push me up against a wall! You fucking coward, I'll resist a little maybe cause I hate you but fucking do it! I'll like it after 10 seconds for fucks sake!" "Do you even know what you want? Take it!" "Am I not what you want? What am I to you? Are you gay!?"
Lol we split cause she was psycho but we were together long enough that her crazy came through and I could see what women are really like.
I became a little bit of an asshole after that and no more women problems, I'm married now. They desire being put in their place, even though they hate it, they love it more.
