>>13741743thank you, I appreciate your reply. yeah it's weird, I'd feel inappropriate if I didn't have much of a relationship with him, it would feel strange and disingenuous to me and I would hate to come off like that when there are people close to him that are mourning. those things in general are weird. I think about other people who have passed and I remember the person, not their body or where they are buried but others don't feel that way. I will have to talk to my mom, I'm not good at things like that.
