Hey [bant]ers! My girlfriend (whom i love dearly) recently told me that she is attracted to one of her male co workers. Now before anyone jumps to conclusions, we have always had an open relationship but for the past year neither of us have been with anyone else. I guess i got used to it being just her and me. Now i feel a little threatened because the way she brought it up was she said she was attracted to him. Before when we brought up sex with another person attraction was always implied but she seemed to get really nervous when talking about it this time.


> he is a really nice guy btw and i have met him before. His name is jamal.
>also nornally if we were both involved it would be in the form of a threesome but this time she said she just wants me to watch.

Is it just that it has been so long or is it a sign of something else going on? Should i be worried?