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Anonymous ID:9/letz55 Sun 14 Nov 2021 18:04:44 No.13823030 View View Reply Original Report

I'm going to quit porn and masturbating cold turkey this time I haven't touched it in 2 weeks or so it'll be a success and I will finally be able to feel like a normal person again.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:xf0Ij8yf Sun 14 Nov 2021 18:06:16 No.13823039 Report

Quoted By: >>13823062

>>13823030
>quit
>normal
stopped reading

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:Ke83qKcl Sun 14 Nov 2021 18:06:56 No.13823044 Report

Quoted By: >>13823062

""normal"" """""""""""""""people""""""""""""""" masturbate though

!Tj........

!Tj........ ID:iuemGqkK Sun 14 Nov 2021 18:07:51 No.13823052 Report

Quoted By: >>13823062

are you training to become a priest

Anonymous

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Anonymous ID:9/letz55 Sun 14 Nov 2021 18:09:42 No.13823062 Report

Quoted By: >>13823074 >>13823085 >>13823100 >>13823208 >>13823261 >>13824010

>>13823039
>>13823044
>>13823052
but didn't you fucks told me to quit porn and stop jerking off to be normal

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:KQ3b4Ex3 Sun 14 Nov 2021 18:11:18 No.13823074 Report

Quoted By: >>13823109

>>13823062
we're more the retard flavor of board /pol/ and /b/ told you to do that

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:Ke83qKcl Sun 14 Nov 2021 18:12:37 No.13823085 Report

Quoted By: >>13823109

>>13823062
why do you want to be normal aka a mindless slave to the jews

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:xf0Ij8yf Sun 14 Nov 2021 18:14:48 No.13823100 Report

Quoted By: >>13823798

>>13823062
Oh me..? No I didn't tell you, someone must've did

Anonymous

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Anonymous ID:9/letz55 Sun 14 Nov 2021 18:15:59 No.13823109 Report

Quoted By: >>13823274

>>13823085
I feel like the root of my femdom fetishes either came from porn or some erotic works and it'll ruin me for real so I'm thinking of putting an end to it.
>>13823074
I still very much want a dominant female to squirt on my face.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:sJyRpTNQ Sun 14 Nov 2021 18:20:02 No.13823133 Report

Quoted By: >>13823261 >>13823798

Just start lifting. You will gain testosterone from it. Then you will stop being a sisy bitch. If you are overweight first start a diet with 700 caloric deficit. This will also boost your T levels. You are competing against other sissys if you actually live in Singapore so it won't take much to beat them. gl anon.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:FIw+ZqIT Sun 14 Nov 2021 18:29:32 No.13823204 Report

Quoted By: >>13823798

>>13823030
I went 5 months without masturbating earlier this year and nothing changed

!Tj........

!Tj........ ID:iuemGqkK Sun 14 Nov 2021 18:30:10 No.13823208 Report

Quoted By: >>13823798

>>13823062
why aren't you becoming a priest

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:vCVK1w+v Sun 14 Nov 2021 18:37:40 No.13823261 Report

Quoted By: >>13823798

>>13823062
Well, quit porn and stop chronically masturbating. There's nothing wrong with giving yourself a little relief a few times a month, or better yet, just having sex.
>>13823133
This stuff is pretty good too. Eating healthy, exercising regularly, and getting proper sleep nearly doubled my serum testosterone.

Anonymous

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Anonymous ID:6Wse/F7U Sun 14 Nov 2021 18:40:05 No.13823274 Report

Quoted By: >>13823798

>>13823109
Where do you think your femdom fetish stems from? I believe certain fetishes we have are more or less inborn (or at least the tendency to develop them is), and so I'm not sure if it is possible for us to ever be rid of them. For example I liked bondage before I even knew what sex was, and this fetish stayed with me no matter how abstinent I was. Certain other ones didn't, however.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:9/letz55 Sun 14 Nov 2021 18:58:41 No.13823798 Report

Quoted By: >>13823860 >>13823917

>>13823100
well I got several suggestions like that
>>13823133
I've never been buffed so I'll try. If I stop porn, jerking off and became a strong, attractive dude but still like femdom then I guess that's just it.

>>13823204
how? did you also change nothing in your daily routine?
>>13823208
I don't have a priest fetish desu.
>>13823261
I'm more afraid of being obsessed with certain kinda sexual lifestyles more than being an addicted coomer. I feel like I'm very not into vanilla sex anymore and that makes me feel like I'm a disgusting pos
>>13823274
you're right. ever since I was a child I always wanted girls to do stuff with me and be rough with me and bully me even, and that was before I discovered what sex really is.
funny though, despite that I like femdom really much and I'm pathetic I don't like being cucked which is the same theme (humiliation+pathetic)

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:6Wse/F7U Sun 14 Nov 2021 19:08:02 No.13823860 Report

Quoted By: >>13823895

>>13823798
I don't know much about femdom but those elaborate scenarios from your other threads sound quite dangerous to me... Things like false rape accusations can ruin your life, I mean that's going way further than just kissing a woman's feet or whatever a dominatrix would ask you to do, isn't it?

Anonymous

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Anonymous ID:9/letz55 Sun 14 Nov 2021 19:15:20 No.13823895 Report

Quoted By: >>13823954 >>13823975

>>13823860
yeah it's very fatal, that's why I can only keep it as a fantasy, because if it happens IRL obviously it wouldn't go like what I imagine, and even if it does it's still very bad for me and my family as well.

my ideal femdom isn't just about sex or bdsm. It's the feeling of being unable to escape from a woman no matter what I do. the idea that she has a thing for me but can easily ruin my life at any moments while make me love her like a hopeless fool is very.... exciting.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:FIw+ZqIT Sun 14 Nov 2021 19:19:16 No.13823917 Report

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>>13823798
>how? did you also change nothing in your daily routine?
i just kind of went for it. and no i did not change anything. i didnt look into it at all and just kind of stopped jerking off.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:6Wse/F7U Sun 14 Nov 2021 19:26:34 No.13823954 Report

Quoted By: >>13823979

>>13823895
Why do you like the idea of her ruining your life too? If you were to take that part out it wouldn't sound that unhealthy anymore.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:sJyRpTNQ Sun 14 Nov 2021 19:30:53 No.13823975 Report

Quoted By: >>13823992

>>13823895
Is the key here the fact that you feel loved by her? Or does this tie in with netorare cuckoldry? If the former than it's not too bad, if the latter which is what I suspected initially than you need to change fast.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:9/letz55 Sun 14 Nov 2021 19:32:49 No.13823979 Report

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>>13823954
Maybe it's comparable to the similar mindset that some chicks really want to be with "bad guys" ya know? despite the truth that most of the times they already know there'll be nothing healthy or beneficial about it.

I like the idea of being so in love/dependent on someone so maybe that too.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:9/letz55 Sun 14 Nov 2021 19:35:44 No.13823992 Report

Quoted By: >>13824063 >>13824113

>>13823975
no anon I don't like being cucked, even if she cucks me with another girl.

like she doesn't necessarily have to love me, but ideally she definitely has a special interest in me + the fact that I'm absolutely in love with her to the point of being so dependent and clingy with her.
Like, I can breakup with her and date plenty chicks but years later on my feeling for her still doesn't dilute a single bit, it only becomes stronger to the point where I think about her all day and need her back in my life etc...

I know it's a fucking paragraph but it's quite complex and not just bedroom plays.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:PLwbpslz Sun 14 Nov 2021 19:40:24 No.13824010 Report

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>>13823062
Just don't be obsessed with it, how is that complicated?

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Anonymous ID:6Wse/F7U Sun 14 Nov 2021 19:52:20 No.13824063 Report

Quoted By: >>13824137

>>13823992
How did it get this complex in the first place? A few posts ago I would have said that the whole thing about not being able to escape from a woman who loves you sounds like a yandere fetish, which I do find appealing myself...
Well in any case, as long as you don't let your fantasies turn into reality you should be fine. But then the risk is always there, isn't it?

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Anonymous ID:sJyRpTNQ Sun 14 Nov 2021 20:06:20 No.13824113 Report

Quoted By: >>13824268

>>13823992
I hear what you are saying. Did you ever think that this is what some women want themselves? many want to feel "owned" for this reason. Not owned as in objectified (not necessarily not that way either) but owned like a precious item. This is why women want jewls from their men (even those that are not whoreish gold diggers). It means that the man values them in a way he does not for others. They they are something to be "kept" and protected as a jewl. Perhaps your understanding of this feeling would lend itself to a greater interaction with women, or perhaps it will be counterbeneficial. But you should consider these things and also like I said work out a little bit. han Chinese are not obese generally so I suggest doing pull ups, pushups and pullups every day and eat protein not just rice. If you are Indian then idk probably do the same.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:9/letz55 Sun 14 Nov 2021 20:14:45 No.13824137 Report

Quoted By:

>>13824063
I don't know exactly when did this whole femdom fetish complete, but like I said I had this thing for the females (especially the ones I love) having the upper hand over most if not all aspects of my life since I was a child.
yandere has certain similarities to my fetish but usually the yandere girl is very interested/in love with the guy and want to keep him *only* for her. in my fetish the woman might not even love the guy a single bit, but she enjoys ruining the guy's life and tease him and make him suffer because she knows he's really in love/obsessed/clingy/dependent.
he knows it too but can't do anything else because his feeling for her is too strong. In a sense it brings a special feeling because I can still be attracted to a girl like that despite knowing she will do nothing but harm to me.

I'll try to keep my life trouble-free and fine as much as I can. thanks for the advice and for listening to my stuff.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:9/letz55 Sun 14 Nov 2021 20:20:57 No.13824268 Report

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>>13824113
I think you definitely make sense. my fetish has similarities with what you said (feeling special because I'm "owned") and the fact that some women themselves wanna be with "bad guys" or stay in "toxic relationships" (knowing it's not good but can't help it anyway because the desire is stronger than rational willpower).
In my case it's a combination of:
A) I'm head over heels and absolutely under her spell
2) She has special interests in me (like ruining my life and make me suffer) and can do it effortlessly
3) the realization that no matter what I do I can't escape her (my feelings for her is too strong despite knowing it's not healthy) and she might not even love me at all (a sense of disappointment+hopelessness) somehow brings me a lot of thrill and excitement.

I'll definitely workout more and try some lifting, not for this obsession but just my own sake. Thanks for the advice anon.

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