>>14056319Just find more reasons not to fall for her and have an internal war. The reasons you have given yourself should overcome your instincts in a way your rational self wins. With this, you will cut the problem in a more definitive fashion, instead of making excuses to not expend time with her and neglect your feelings.
Remember, you can't have a war with yourself, and lose in both fronts. The results of the war would be your final decision. Rationale always wins in the end, fren.