>>14074132I've always talked about how I can't stand fat people, that they are too lazy to exercise, too weak to eat right, etc.
I brought up several times a coworker of mine who was a petite, skinny blonde before her first kid and doubled in weight after. I talked about how gross she is now and how bad I felt for the husband.
My wife is now skinner after her first kid than before. The message needs to be that weight gain is entirely in your control and a failure to maintain healthy weight is a weakness. If she's a good person, she won't want to fail.
