>>14382657It's out there anon. Most slightly chubby nerdy girls have been horrifyingly scarred by life long pornography access.
Generally every fetish is just a perversion of a good/natural drive. Generally by porn and degenerates.
Wants a strong man who makes her feel safe, submissive becomes = Slap, choke, spit on me, tie me up.
Woman wants to be submissive in bed and let her husband bang her/use her = OH DADDDDYY DADDY IM A CUMMY SLUT DADDY UWUUUUUUUU.
The quiet, feminine submissive GF who's not polluted by porno is hard to find m8s.