would focusing on a hobby and not trying to get with girls at like 21, be a bad idea? only reason why i would even want someone is just for experience, but this hobby would take me a while to complete like till i'm around 30 or something. idk if it's because of my current mentality but i really just don't want to be in a relationship, i think they're fucking pointless, having to worry about someone elses well being and feelings just wouldn't make me happy