>>14702210To my own surprise I am quite popular with the people I know and they want to hang out with me even though personally I don't like most of them back. But I noticed that when I start spending more and more time with someone there comes a change where they lose their edge/youthfulness. One guy I knew started going to church and stopped drinking, another guy patched up his family problems and went straight edge, etcetra. They become more wholesome but as a result they drink less, they lose their entertaining edginess, they get their shit together and become very busy. I don't hold a grudge against them since they're becoming better people overall but it means I constantly need to find a new buddy to drink with.
