>>14790485I think ugly people might cope and claim disinterest, even if only to themselves. Like sour grapes, right? With time, they might even come to believe it. These things become us.
Regarding the gay analogy, are you unfamiliar with the phenomenon of the prison gay?
I think you're oversimplifying the interaction for your own optimism and convenience. Why would more attractive people - more often those with higher levels of sex hormones which are highly related to sex drive - have less interest in sex, the aforementioned circumstances notwithstanding? There's no basis for your assertion other than limited anecdote, and even in your experience you're unable to find one to engage with you in a pseudo-romantic relationship, despite your own acclaimed great appeal?
Rather than limiting yourself to the search, or as I with great shame (for it is shameful, truly, for me to show doubt for you my friend) the non-search and hopeless fantasizing over such an improbable person, wouldn't you be better suited in finding the courage to tackle your own fears of failure in intimacy?
