>>14859915Yes but it will be difficult. I met a nice young couple once with that dynamic. He was going to buy this girl he loved so much a house and they missed the window, and they were so far off, and he had this manic determination in his eyes that he would be her prince, and she was so defeated and ashamed, and this wasn't her fault, but she carried guilt from the bad years. I often wonder what happened to them. If you can rise together and make peace with the past and focus on a shared present and desired future, it can work. If you fixate on saving someone, that keeps them partially in the past. They can never overcome needing to be saved. And sometimes they might test you hard, to remind you what you're trying to do. So be careful and remember you have to grow as a person too.
