She wants me to make her pregnant but I have told her that i only want to adopt someone from asia or africa or the middle east she does not like this and I have tried explaining to her that having children goes against my anti natalist world view there are enough people in this world already and I have suggested that we should adopt a child from africa but she just shrugs and looks the other way i am convinced that she hates foreigners. She has refused to shake hands with my black friends what do I do ? I cant be in this relationship shes straining me and she obviously has something against foreigners.