>>14941869 Think about what you're asking from his perspective. He's been amazing, you live together, you have great sex, he trusts you completely the relationships sound like one of the best on paper. And then you turn around and tell him, "Hey, we're doing amazing so I'd like to fuck other guys."
For anyone that is strictly monogamous saying something like to them is an implication of a plethora of things. I don't like sex with you, sex with you isn't enough, I fantasize about other penises being inside of me and now I want to act on those fantasies. And honestly it's hard to trudge your way back from that. I, for one, couldn't sit with a 5 year SO and have her tell me she wants to bang other dudes and have it be a discussion that is at all on equal footing.
