In the last sixty years we have thrown our values overboard, relativized unborn life, neglected the elderly, undermined the family. We are children of a postmodern society without dress, folklore and church. Cohesion has been lost. Islam is the last collectivist ideology that resists postmodern posturing - that's admirable! To develop fully as a woman according to feminist ideas is not compatible with the compulsion to be there for children. You have to give that out of your hands and it goes wrong. When it comes to having children, it already starts with female academics shortly before or after their fortieth birthday, when it is physically close. It's a tightrope act - scientifically speaking, with disadvantages. Don't get it wrong! Humans experience peace and security by belonging to a larger group that strives for cohesion. We have become a soulless people, at odds with ourselves, living only for the sake of profit maximization and desire. Are culturally hollowed out, experiencing senescence and low birth rates. Who is actually supposed to finance the state? We can't escape our social, animal traits - which is exactly why half of America is swallowing antidepressants. Today's relationships are based on trade and calculation, that makes a society fail. Healthy would be both. We relativize everything to death, don't even know why we should marry or have children anymore. Islam still has a clearly recognizable culture, honor, respect.