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Anonymous ID:WIthzJsN Thu 21 Apr 2022 15:33:56 No.15021640 View View Reply Original Report

Quoted By: >>15021643 >>15021651 >>15021703 >>15023455 >>15023650 >>15025871 >>15025961 >>15026634 >>15028478

Bant. My friend and I are going on a date. But I am very nervous... What can I do to make it go well? I like her a lot. And it feels weird since she is my friend...

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:TMVp8PR9 Thu 21 Apr 2022 15:34:32 No.15021643 Report

Quoted By: >>15021645

>>15021640
>her
he

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:WIthzJsN Thu 21 Apr 2022 15:35:41 No.15021645 Report

Quoted By: >>15021650 >>15024790

>>15021643
She has a functioning uterus

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:TMVp8PR9 Thu 21 Apr 2022 15:37:36 No.15021650 Report

Quoted By: >>15021685

>>15021645
im pretty sure thats just a bleeding hole

MH ID:nsclj7it Thu 21 Apr 2022 15:37:44 No.15021651 Report

Quoted By: >>15021685

>>15021640
Visit the local hood, she will love it.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:WIthzJsN Thu 21 Apr 2022 15:47:26 No.15021685 Report

Quoted By: >>15021692 >>15021701

>>15021650
You are being rude...
>>15021651
That is poor advice

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:TMVp8PR9 Thu 21 Apr 2022 15:48:58 No.15021692 Report

Quoted By: >>15021999

>>15021685
why rude?

MH ID:nsclj7it Thu 21 Apr 2022 15:51:54 No.15021701 Report

Quoted By: >>15021999

>>15021685
No it is not. 4chin told me that american girls love BBC. I just told you what would make her happy.

Normie !Big.GaevU6

Normie !Big.GaevU6 ID:EC5oQvYs Thu 21 Apr 2022 15:52:01 No.15021703 Report

Quoted By: >>15021847 >>15021999

>>15021640
You need to start seeing her as more than a friend. Y’all are dating. Act like it and treat her as such. Trying to act like she’s just a friend is childish.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:5f1TrrSB Thu 21 Apr 2022 15:59:25 No.15021847 Report

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>>15021703
NIGGER SHUT UP LET INCH DO WHAT HE WANTS
YOUR ADVICE SUCKS DON'T MAKE HIS DATING LIFE WORSE

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:WIthzJsN Thu 21 Apr 2022 16:09:44 No.15021999 Report

Quoted By: >>15022038 >>15022043 >>15022065 >>15023650

>>15021692
You are contradicting me
>>15021701
Perhaps she is not American...
>>15021703
I don't really get the difference between a friend and a romantic partner... How do I make the date feel more romantic? It's weird because we really are, in fact, friends.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:TMVp8PR9 Thu 21 Apr 2022 16:14:21 No.15022038 Report

Quoted By: >>15022168

>>15021999
but im right

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:Nf93BsWs Thu 21 Apr 2022 16:15:19 No.15022043 Report

Quoted By: >>15022168

>>15021999
I’m going to take your post at face value and assume you’re being sincere:
Are you certain it is a romantic date and you haven’t misinterpreted the situation?

If so, you don’t have to do much different. Just have a conversation, be normal. Playful teasing is good if you can actually pull it off. When context allows it, try to initiate some innocent physical contact, but don’t do anything too over the top — a hug, kiss on the cheek, touch on the hand, arm on the shoulder etc.

Above all, it usually isn’t wise to get advice on romance from the turboautists on 4chan. Good luck

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:Nf93BsWs Thu 21 Apr 2022 16:19:35 No.15022065 Report

Quoted By: >>15022168 >>15023319

>>15021999
If you’re old enough to drink (which I doubt), it can help to have a drink or two just to take the edge off for both of you if you’ve never gone out before. But the most important advice is what I said already, you have to initiate physical contact in a way that feels natural.

If you’re a shy guy like me you may find it hard to initiate like that but it is an absolute necessity. In my opinion, it’s best to go easy on overt compliments and stick more to humor if possible, but it really depends on the girl in question

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:dmQMB2wb Thu 21 Apr 2022 16:21:57 No.15022079 Report

Quoted By: >>15022168

Be sincere
Dont say bullshit you dont mean or doesnt interest you

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:WIthzJsN Thu 21 Apr 2022 16:31:14 No.15022168 Report

Quoted By: >>15022190 >>15022332

>>15022038
Yes, her uterus has a hole from which it regularly bleeds. It's called menstruation.
>>15022043
I am being sincere. Yes, it's a date. I really want to hug her. But I think that would be weird to do just out of the blue. Maybe I can hug her when I meet her, as a greeting. And then that opens the door to a whole smorgasbord of physical contact...
>>15022065
Uuuuuugggghhhhh that seems so difficult... Nothing feels natural. I have to go way out of my comfort zone and make a fool of myself. She will recognize that. It's just a matter of whether she wants to tolerate it for the sake of getting to touch me.
>>15022079
I am always sincere but this is good advice I think

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:ULt1y/pl Thu 21 Apr 2022 16:41:33 No.15022190 Report

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>>15022168
sorry anon
it just looks like you're not very cool
you'll just have to get cooler somehow if you want a better chance of a successful date

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:Nf93BsWs Thu 21 Apr 2022 16:53:32 No.15022332 Report

Quoted By:

>>15022168
Yeah, open with a hug and a smile. Don’t overthink things too much because then you’ll just second guess yourself constantly. Footsy under the table is another common move provided it’s a dinner date.

If she really likes you and already knows you from the time you’ve been friends, she’ll understand that you’re probably nervous. Some girls even find shyness cute in men, though confidence is definitely preferable in most cases.

Idk I almost don’t want to give you too much advice because it’s really best to go by instinct. You don’t need to force anything.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:p2Bp/nWG Thu 21 Apr 2022 18:57:48 No.15023319 Report

Quoted By: >>15023466

>>15022065
>old enough to post on 4chinks
>not old enough to have a drink
god I hate americans

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:t4nhzoF9 Thu 21 Apr 2022 19:25:03 No.15023455 Report

Quoted By: >>15023754

>>15021640
Make sure she doesn’t see any pictures of little anime girls on your pc/phone she might think you were some kind of degenerate pedo!

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:bpuEGufj Thu 21 Apr 2022 19:26:18 No.15023466 Report

Quoted By:

>>15023319
>the americans are at fault
can't stand retards

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:dkU3gFYU Thu 21 Apr 2022 19:44:12 No.15023650 Report

Quoted By: >>15023754

>>15021640
hi nch where are you and your girlfriend going for your date
>>15021999
I am telling you nch you have to trade mouth juice with her

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:WIthzJsN Thu 21 Apr 2022 20:00:55 No.15023754 Report

Quoted By: >>15024740

>>15023455
No it's cute. I think she secretly likes anime...
>>15023650
We are just going out. I just want to talk to her. And hug her. And maybe hold hands with her.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:FyhrObVC Thu 21 Apr 2022 20:52:01 No.15024056 Report

Quoted By: >>15024516

post more sexy children

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:WIthzJsN Thu 21 Apr 2022 21:46:38 No.15024516 Report

Quoted By:

>>15024056
If you find children sexy then you should probably kill yourself

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:dkU3gFYU Thu 21 Apr 2022 23:03:41 No.15024740 Report

Quoted By: >>15024771

>>15023754
nch where are you taking her for the date

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:WIthzJsN Thu 21 Apr 2022 23:11:48 No.15024771 Report

Quoted By: >>15024784

>>15024740
We are going for a walk in a park. Maybe we'll have dinner afterward... Is that a good idea?

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:dkU3gFYU Thu 21 Apr 2022 23:22:18 No.15024784 Report

Quoted By: >>15024934

>>15024771
yeah i guess that could be kind of romantic if you trade mouth juice with her at the end

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:bOSLGWPo Thu 21 Apr 2022 23:26:51 No.15024790 Report

Quoted By: >>15024928

>>15021645
You checked for yourself?

ₐₙₒₙᵧₘₒᵤₛ !slushyyao.

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ₐₙₒₙᵧₘₒᵤₛ !slushyyao. ID:HuL+VmN5 Thu 21 Apr 2022 23:28:53 No.15024794 Report

Quoted By: >>15024928

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:WIthzJsN Fri 22 Apr 2022 00:15:32 No.15024928 Report

Quoted By:

>>15024790
That would entail impregnating her and having her carry the baby to term.
>>15024794
Thank you, Slush

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:WIthzJsN Fri 22 Apr 2022 00:16:39 No.15024934 Report

Quoted By: >>15024988

>>15024784
I cannot imagine a situation in which we kiss romantically :(

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:dkU3gFYU Fri 22 Apr 2022 00:42:16 No.15024988 Report

Quoted By: >>15024996 >>15025036

>>15024934
should I help?

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:nThql6Wj Fri 22 Apr 2022 00:44:01 No.15024996 Report

Quoted By:

>>15024988
yes teach her how to kiss well and do the same for him please

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:WIthzJsN Fri 22 Apr 2022 00:56:07 No.15025036 Report

Quoted By: >>15025088

>>15024988
How is it that you would?

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:dkU3gFYU Fri 22 Apr 2022 01:12:40 No.15025088 Report

Quoted By: >>15025100 >>15025105

>>15025036
the other canadian seems to think i should show you both manually but i don't really want to kiss your girlfriend

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:5Hml6UwR Fri 22 Apr 2022 01:13:49 No.15025090 Report

Quoted By: >>15025091 >>15025100

i hope you remember to buy ice cream.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:dkU3gFYU Fri 22 Apr 2022 01:14:28 No.15025091 Report

Quoted By: >>15025100 >>15025106

>>15025090
nch hates icecream because it makes people fat and he hates fat people
he hates hamburgers for the same reason

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:WIthzJsN Fri 22 Apr 2022 01:17:19 No.15025100 Report

Quoted By: >>15025112 >>15025142

>>15025088
I would let you if you came down to the US just for me...
>>15025090
It might not be appropriate for our date. I will see.
>>15025091
Wtf I never said that...

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:WIthzJsN Fri 22 Apr 2022 01:17:47 No.15025105 Report

Quoted By: >>15025142

>>15025088
Wait is this implying that you want to kiss me?

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:5Hml6UwR Fri 22 Apr 2022 01:17:54 No.15025106 Report

Quoted By:

>>15025091
but women like ice cream and getting fat. i think he will have to turn gay.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:5Hml6UwR Fri 22 Apr 2022 01:20:02 No.15025112 Report

Quoted By:

>>15025100
>It might not be appropriate for our date. I will see.
sounds like you need to reschedule to a hot afternoon in june.

Anonymous

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Anonymous ID:dkU3gFYU Fri 22 Apr 2022 01:37:07 No.15025142 Report

Quoted By: >>15025485

>>15025100
no I don't want to do it
>Wtf I never said that...
are you saying it isn't true
>>15025105
where are you getting that from nch

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:WIthzJsN Fri 22 Apr 2022 02:39:47 No.15025485 Report

Quoted By: >>15025487

>>15025142
I will not answer either of those questions...

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:dkU3gFYU Fri 22 Apr 2022 02:40:14 No.15025487 Report

Quoted By: >>15025489

>>15025485
why not

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:WIthzJsN Fri 22 Apr 2022 02:40:29 No.15025489 Report

Quoted By: >>15025555 >>15025558

>>15025487
They are too revealing...

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:dkU3gFYU Fri 22 Apr 2022 03:03:55 No.15025555 Report

Quoted By: >>15025613

>>15025489
what do you mean? how are they revealing

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:dkU3gFYU Fri 22 Apr 2022 03:04:19 No.15025558 Report

Quoted By: >>15025613

>>15025489
nch i got quads that means you have to answer me honestly

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:WIthzJsN Fri 22 Apr 2022 03:14:12 No.15025613 Report

Quoted By: >>15025651

>>15025555
>>15025558
That's not how quads works but I will answer irregardless. The first question, regarding whether I hate ice cream, fat people and hamburgers is just something I would prefer not to express my opinion on. The second is revealing of the fact that I secretly want to kiss you on the lips. But I think you already knew this from a prior thread.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:dkU3gFYU Fri 22 Apr 2022 03:20:44 No.15025651 Report

Quoted By: >>15025707

>>15025613
why don't you want to express your opinion on ice cream, fat people, and hamburgers but you're willing to reveal that you want to kiss me on the lips
also why do you want to kiss me on the lips but not trade mouth juice with your girlfriend

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:WIthzJsN Fri 22 Apr 2022 03:32:22 No.15025707 Report

Quoted By: >>15025751

>>15025651
Just... reasons. You wouldn't get it.

Anonymous

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Anonymous ID:dkU3gFYU Fri 22 Apr 2022 03:49:37 No.15025751 Report

Quoted By: >>15025862

>>15025707
I think I will if you explain it

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:WIthzJsN Fri 22 Apr 2022 04:05:31 No.15025862 Report

Quoted By: >>15026007

>>15025751
burgers ice cream fat people: too revealing
kissing you on the lips: it would be an intimate act that brought us closer together

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:x80rW+Y0 Fri 22 Apr 2022 04:07:21 No.15025871 Report

Quoted By: >>15025948

>>15021640
I hope you break up so we don't have to suffer through all your threads sorry

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:WIthzJsN Fri 22 Apr 2022 04:11:12 No.15025948 Report

Quoted By:

>>15025871
If we start a relationship then I will stop making shitposts like this. If we end up just being friends then I will keep making posts in which I obsess over random girls (and maybe even boys) until I find someone else (unlikely) or die (also unlikely, unless I am killed)

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:u6WLoTRZ Fri 22 Apr 2022 04:17:13 No.15025961 Report

Quoted By: >>15025967

>>15021640
>going on date with friend
What? Like a romantic date? Or just hanging out? I'm confused.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:WIthzJsN Fri 22 Apr 2022 04:18:43 No.15025967 Report

Quoted By: >>15025989

>>15025961
It's a date. I am trying to make it romantic. So that we can get married...

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:u6WLoTRZ Fri 22 Apr 2022 04:23:53 No.15025989 Report

Quoted By: >>15026021

>>15025967
>It's a date
Did she call it that?

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:dkU3gFYU Fri 22 Apr 2022 04:28:07 No.15026007 Report

Quoted By: >>15026021

>>15025862
does this mean that you are a fat person nch

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:WIthzJsN Fri 22 Apr 2022 04:33:03 No.15026021 Report

Quoted By: >>15026025 >>15026031

>>15025989
No
>>15026007
No

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:u6WLoTRZ Fri 22 Apr 2022 04:35:25 No.15026025 Report

Quoted By: >>15027733

>>15026021
Then why are you calling it a date? Not trying to be an asshole, just wanting to understand more so i can give better advice

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:dkU3gFYU Fri 22 Apr 2022 04:39:24 No.15026031 Report

Quoted By:

>>15026021
even if you are a fatty you can still be my friend i don't mind

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:p2Bp/nWG Fri 22 Apr 2022 08:21:50 No.15026630 Report

Quoted By:

Hey man why go out with a girl when you're such a big homsexual

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:/j0GDB8Q Fri 22 Apr 2022 08:23:29 No.15026634 Report

Quoted By:

>>15021640
Show her your lolli folder. Chicks dig that

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:/j0GDB8Q Fri 22 Apr 2022 08:24:58 No.15026638 Report

Quoted By: >>15026970 >>15027733

You could also just rub your cock on her lips mid conversation. Chicks really dig that too. Shell see you're confident and it'll really take the relationship to the next level

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:aIIzfQMn Fri 22 Apr 2022 10:21:50 No.15026970 Report

Quoted By:

>>15026638
>rub your cock on her lips mid-conversation
This actually works

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:WIthzJsN Fri 22 Apr 2022 13:58:53 No.15027733 Report

Quoted By: >>15028054 >>15028503

>>15026025
We both expressed romantic interest in each other, and my offer of a date was made directly in response to this. So it's a date... In any case, I would consider any time I'm alone with someone cute to be a date, whether the other person thinks so or not.
>>15026638
Even if it were not for the fact that that were illegal, why would I want to sexually assault someone I love?

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:/j0GDB8Q Fri 22 Apr 2022 14:39:00 No.15028054 Report

Quoted By: >>15028161

>>15027733
Idk man chicks are weird like that, its always the last thing you think that they really want. I'm just trying to help you out, you don't gotta be a pompous little faggot bitch about it dude jeez

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:WIthzJsN Fri 22 Apr 2022 14:55:45 No.15028161 Report

Quoted By: >>15028166

>>15028054
I'm not trying to be a pompous little faggot bitch; it just happens naturally

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:dkU3gFYU Fri 22 Apr 2022 14:58:06 No.15028166 Report

Quoted By: >>15028437

>>15028161
i don't think you are a pompous little faggot bitch nch he is probably just jealous because he doesn't have a gf like you and also he is not handsome and cool like you and he has an even unfriendlier personality than you

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:/j0GDB8Q Fri 22 Apr 2022 15:22:20 No.15028437 Report

Quoted By: >>15028438

>>15028166
Fuck off you jerk off piece of shit. Don't you DARE fucking speak to me you cucky nigger, I'm trying to help this idiot wise up and you yap your filthy cocksucker mouth at me? Have you any idea how much of a worthless pathetic worm you are compared to me. I will rip your torso in half without even thinking twice about it fuck off

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:dkU3gFYU Fri 22 Apr 2022 15:23:28 No.15028438 Report

Quoted By:

>>15028437
i think that you sound like the pompous little faggot bitch to me and i think that you probably wouldn't talk like that face-to-face with me

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:4E0azs6n Fri 22 Apr 2022 15:31:24 No.15028478 Report

Quoted By:

>>15021640
just be nice and caring

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:u6WLoTRZ Fri 22 Apr 2022 15:37:19 No.15028503 Report

Quoted By:

>>15027733
>>15027733
>We both expressed romantic interest in each other, and my offer of a date was made directly in response to this. So it's a date
That would make sense but you said in earlier posts that she's just a friend so I'm confused.
>In any case, I would consider any time I'm alone with someone cute to be a date, whether the other person thinks so or not.
That is a very unconventional definition, anon. I wouldn't say it's necessarily a bad definition, because you can treat different dates differently depending on your evaluation of their interest, but it's still a very unconventional definition.
How did she express romantic interest in you? And how did you express it to her?

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