I genuinely want to hear what men think.
I don't plan on leaving him, but I've been reading a TON of marriage advice and learned that men tend to think everything is fine unless you're extremely direct with them. It feels like such a big chasm between us and I'm so lonely.
He's been really distant and insensitive since we had a baby two years ago and I finally realized a week or two ago that my feelings for him have waned significantly. I don't want to hurt him but he hasn't even realized how much I've been hurting.
As a man, would you want to know so maybe you can start fixing it? How would you want to be told?