>>15375877This is a great point actually, and most people aren't even aware of it.
You see it from guys all the time, of treating them nicely and whatever other disney bullshit. Then they complain that women "only like assholes". And they never put 2 and 2 together - be more like the assholes and maybe women would like you. And it's not that they're attracted to assholes, it's that they're attracted to confidence and dominance. Women want to follow a strong man. Physically strong is good but mentally strong is an absolute requirement. Even if you're a 9/10 model, women won't be excited about you if you have the personality of a wimpy 14 year old beta. Yes, it's unfortunate that most women can't stand to be loved in the way you think (ie the way disney movies taught) you're supposed to love, but that's reality. Men think their desires (to be treated with affection, kindness, etc) are the same as women's. They are not.
It's similar on the female side, though you see it far more often from post-wall (~23+) women than from younger girls. They list all their accolades, their career accomplishments, their educational record, how much money they make, how they bought their own home, drive a nice car, take fancy vacations with their own money, etc. Women think their desires (a partner with an impressive career, high income, owns their own house and drives a nice car, has lots of money for vacations and shows and whatever else) are the same as men's. Obviously, they are not.
Here's what women want, in order of importance:
>Confident, dominant (these are requirements, all others are suggestions)>Tall, handsome, good physique - part of being attractive is not dressing like a walmart customer and good personal hygiene>High income, impressive career, own a house, nice car, etcHere's what men want, in order of importance:
>Young>Pretty (that means not fat)But, somehow, these lists have become inverted.
