did i make my brother gay? like all boys, my brother and i used to wrestle. i was older and naturally larger than my brother, so i would come out on top in virtually every fight we had. when we were both in puberty it began to get awkward. either one of us would get an erection mid-fight, so things tapered down once i was in high school. reflecting back on it, i cannot be certain that my domination didn't turn my brother into a submissive gay bottom. lots of brothers wrestle throughout their childhoods and turn out straight, but i cannot shake the feeling that i played some role in this. please help me r/banter.