>>15542795there is self, and then there is Self.
the is true, and there is True.
the true self can be known by getting honest inputs from those who know you best.
the True self can be known in moments of instinctive reaction or in dealing with adversity. basically how you are when life is rough is who you are under the niecities.
the true Self can be seen in your moments of personal greatness, in which you positively exceed even your own expectations
the True Self can only be known in the oblivion of sleep without dreams.