>>15626704I think i may understand, you see this is what makes the entity, "friends", special, you dont wake up and decide to have a social circle, its not healthy, you will just pressure yourself... and the results would be bad afterwards, survival, social statues, are not about whether or not having friends, anyone with enough will can rise the rate of these twl, bonds are for you and the other person, a relief.. not something anyone can get easily
>>15626711I hope that story is over, well it is over if you dont look at it anymore, people forget, eventually... and its natural to have those feelings, i think we cant express them due to social enforcement, pride etc, but those things dont matter to me here, this is why im honest with everyone..
>>15626724Is it bad if these people are online? Its hard its hard..it so hard
>>15626725Separation can usually occur by external factors, you can say hello everyday, goodbyes and how are you's , smile when they smile and dance when youre invited to a party, but, how many of those are you willing to cry with? To hug deeply? To spend weeks with without getting bored?
I try to understand people.. ask them for a clarification when we have issues, apologize when im at wrong, ask them to recognize their mistakes when i do too, these are the ways to strengthen bonds, and to feel better about myself..
>>15626740Hard question..i dont know if im able to amdwer this one... this would mean a good world, but wouldnt that make us feel less appreciated by strong special bonds?
