I got married recently to my overweight gf, that promised to lose weight once we got married.
However, instead she started to gain weight.
How to make her lose weight and motivate her to do it herself?
I tried talking to her to lose weight but she would either cry and ask why would I marry her if I didn't like her body, or just eat junk food.
I can't even aroused by her, we didn't have sex for the last two months and blame me for not getting it up.