>>15851577Moved here for work and later married.
>>15851581>being a foreigner there sucksBecause you didn't learn the language or culture. Anything below N1 proficiency is not proficient.
>You can learn the language, learn all the customs [...]But you obviously chose not to. Not saying that you have to, but it's obvious that all you know about actual life in Japan is based on what you hear from people not qualified to live here.
>They'll never accept you as a member of their society, you'll always be an outsider to themIt's perfectly reasonable to exclude someone who isn't willing/able to learn the language. This holds true no matter where you go. If you're nothing but a tourist, you are obviously not part of their society. DUH.
>you're never going to amount to shit in their societyOnly if you are shit at integrating, like the loser whose story you're basing your statements on.
How would you know if you've never actually tried living there? If it was word of mouth, why do you surround yourself with incompetents and English teachers?
If your problem with Japan is based solely on the fact that one of your peers failed horribly, you can just say so and I promise to only mildly ridicule your ill-informed opinion.