>>15915591>>15914517Why do you need any convincing to marry?
If you really want to find "love" or anything of the sort, like spending a good portion of your life with your girlfriend, then it will come naturally to you. For example, think about her needs more often and slap that shit on your "chore list." Do anything in your own power and OWN WAY of learning to best learn from past failures/situations (do you like writing? on your phone? write on a mirror with expo like a faggot like me?) She must also reciprocate that to you as well. She thinks about your needs and provide you for what you want, you do the same in return. Relationships are a two-way street- mutual and doing what benefits both parties. That is why its called a relationship.
If you cannot find the naturality of supporting the other when they depend on you for her emotional needs, then maybe you guys are not suited for each other. That is completely fine, there is nothing wrong with it. You should talk to her with full honesty. Honesty is important because it helps you control the situation easier, whether for yourself or both of you vs the problem. Full frontal. Knee deep in the dead no matter what it takes. If she don't accept you for who you are, it is not worth your time. Instead, work on small skills and build up a career of any interest you get in your mind, better yourself through failures because that is the only way to be SUCCESSFUL.
The feeling of wanting to quit often occurs before you the time actually reach great progress towards success.
