Yesterday night I was supposed to go to a club with friends, but I backed out when I found out my ex would be going, and I told her that.

Me: Are you going to the club with everyone? Because if you are I won’t go.

Her: Yeah, likely

Me: Alright good. Look, I know you’re observant, and I know you know what you want, so I’m going to do my best to work on myself to become a better person for myself. I trust that you will see the changes when that time comes.

Her: Okay. But don't let me stop u from having fun. I told u we'd probably run into each other at the club

Me: Yeah that’s cool. I don’t want to ruin each other’s night because we ran into each other.

Her: We won't. You'll be talking to ppl, I'll be talking to ppl

*1 hour later*

Her: U really aren't coming bc of me?

Me: Yeah, I’m not some weird stalker who goes wherever you go. Don’t worry about it.

Her: YOU ARE NOT STALKING
Stop bending ur life around me. It's weirder to go out of ur way to avoid me

Me: You're so goofy

Her: lmao ok

Me: You hate me but still want to be around me? You're such an enigma...

Her: Coming from you...

Did I do the right thing? Why does she want me to go to where she’s at?