People use funerals in the same way they would organize a party or even decorate their home, and i think it's completely out of place. They will contemplate which flowers and where/how they should be presented, what music and what singer should be there. Even micromanaging where everyone sits in relation to each other. They treat it like it's an event for the sake of expression or something. Whoever died is still dead regardless where i sit in the church, and i understand the flowers but why does it have to be micromanaged? Why the singer at all?
>yea that song was so her/him...
Boomers in particular take part in this. I even understand the need for a ceremony when someone dies, but why make a perverted event out of it through planning and nitpicking trivialities? It's just stupid.