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BPDs have low self esteem, high cruelty.
>Pretends to love you
>legitimately is incapable of love
>mines you for information, under the guise of sharing everything together
>stores away all your hangups and WILL be using them at a later date to regulate your mood
>gets off on male attention, needs it to survive
>think "vampire"
>doesn't just love sexual validation, also actually settles for any strong display of emotion: whether that is making you happy by pretending to love you, grandiose displays of affection
>or using aforementioned secrets to break you down, by working out the worst thing she could possibly say and then letting you have it
>or cheating / semi cheating with somebody and telling you about it under the guise of honesty, just to revel secretly in you getting very angry or upset
>alters history, retelling events that you experienced together with small changes, like Chinese whispers, until eventually she comes off very well in the story, or it seems like you did something wrong
>actually Pretends to believe this new version of events she created
>very creating serial liar, doesn't just alter events, invents them wholesale
>constantly finds reasons to lower your self worth, will pretend you are out of line saying something benign just to put you in the doghouse, so that you'll prove your worth and work your way back out
I hope i can save just one anon
