My entire early twenties I’ve been chased around by older (35-40), sometimes much older (50–60+) men. And I know all of my same age friends experiencing the same. I apologize for offending anyone but I see them as sad and pathetic for doing so. Even if I have a nice conversation I’m just not interested. I think they are absolutely delusional and lost. Perhaps they also don’t own mirrors and/or have that positivity opinion that their youthful energy will override their obvious old age. “your only as old as you feel!” They say things like this in a sad attempt to have us believe them they are worth our time and energy. I’ve asked some of them why they don’t date women their own age. Some admit they are too vain, others simply say they haven’t met one they can genuinely connect with. So instead they waste years writing sad, pathetic love letters and expressing their undying love for us (the younger ones who want literally nothing to do with them) and Ive come to think it’s a mental illness. They are absolutely delusional. Plus, if I was a gold digging man hating girl I could literally have had a lot of these men empty their pockets for my pleasure. Luckily for them I won’t take advantage. But they should be ware.

Perhaps they are hoping some beautiful young woman will see them for the old man hunk they truly are because they see themselves like some sort of George clooney (who by the way I just see those older actors as old and ugly regardless. The silver fox is such a sham and it’s a Hollywood construct. These men have FAME and MONEY. It’s not really their looks that get them women in my opinion)

So my advice for these older men (which I know they won’t take it anyways Cus they literally aren’t listening) is please find a woman around your age and appreciate what she does offer.