>>16438761im saying the right thing to do as a modern man is to disconnect from what you dont like
you dont have to put up with any expectations
people excpect you to only be a provider?
you have agency and free choice, you can choose whatever expectations you want for yourself. Dont put up with other peoples bs just for the sake of ideology
as someone who had lost their sanity largely because of a relationship, you come to realise that mental well being is much more important than any relationship.
A woman shouldnt be the root of your happiness, that's a relationship doomed to failure, pinning your happiness on an external source
a person should already be happy by themselves, and a good partner would only ever uplift that happiness.
until you find that partner, just disconnect from whats happening from the modern dating scene
who cares what other women are doing, not my problem, my mental well being is more important.
Let yourself be happy by yourself, and look for people who could only uplift that happiness.
Anything else isnt worth the cost to mental health
