>>16495820>Dictate the paceThe pace was the least of my worries. I asked him if he had a condom and he said "what do I need a condom for?, it's not like you can get pregnant anyway", which shocked me a bit. Then I asked him to put one on anyway because the condoms are lubricated and he said he wouldn't be able to finish (he used a different word) if he had to "wear a bag". So I was like, "ok, but don't finish inside me", and he said he would finish wherever he wants which made me upset, but I kept my mouth shut about it because I just wanted to get it over with.
>Other guyUnfortunately I think my best option is to be a little bit more accommodative with the other guy, if he chooses to start a relationship with me.
I'm trying to find a gun small enough to fit in my hands. Maybe a .380.
I'm not rushing. The whole reason I let it happen was because I felt it would be wrong to enter another relationship at the same time I'm accepting guys have needs. I was with my ex for quite a while and he always stopped when I asked him to stop and I felt like I should at least give him an opportunity and it didn't turn out the way I thought it would.
Crazy how people on here think I'm "larping" right? Lol.
