>>1649754why do they assume you have ulterior motives? are you staring at her breasts instead of her eyes? are your pupils dilated? has your penis swelled with blood? women are able to pick up visual cues that entirely give away a man's intentions. i recommend thinking about cold showers, discussing cold showers, and taking cold showers while in the company of women. this is negate the rush of blood to your penis and lower your core body temperature, signalling a calm and collected man who only wants to buy a female dinner and be her whipping boy for the rest of his life.