How come there are different types of gays? You get the ones who are clearly gay from the age of 9; they act very effeminate, usually have small, skinny heads weak bones, and that stereotypical gay voice. Then you get the bearded homo/bisexual pervert type with beards, who hang around woods and have anal fisting orgies and stuff.. Are you actually born gay in some cases and what is the difference between the two types....