>>16530319That's not it dude. If you've ever talked to guys that have gotten in really good shape, they'll tell you how they got a lot of completments after they did it, and they get those complements from other men. Listen, fitness is good, it will improve your health and self-image. both of which can improve your chances with women, but like all physical characteristics, all it can accomplish is help you make a good first impression.
Take me for instance, I'm 6'2 and I'm pretty handsome, I have all the physical tools it takes to get women interested in me, and yet I was alone for pretty much all of highschool, but I killed it in college. What changed? I didn't get ripped, I just learned how to talk to people. Where most guys fail with women is that they don't know how to communicate with them, without making them feel uncomfortable.
You see, you might not see yourself as a threat when you're at a bar, walking down the street at night, or smiling at a girl in a grocery store, but the average man is stronger than 95% of women, so to a lot of women, a strange man is dangerous until proven otherwise. Being attractive is obviously very helpful in making women not see you as harmful, butnif your personality is shit, then you're still boned