>get out of a toxic relationship
>couple months pass
>become friends with a cute enough girl that's the complete opposite personality wise to my ex
>she actually makes me laugh and i genuinely enjoy the time we spend together
>look up her instagram to see if she got a boyfriend or something
>she's single
>YES.cum
>read her bio again without my dick taking over my thoughs process, notice she got an only fans
>KILL.me

Is this actually how it goes nowadays? Not only do you have to hope someone's single but now you have to watch out for them being turbowhores? I recently got my dream job and i just wanna marry and have kids and now the dating pool got HALVED AGAIN?